As much fun as spending time with your pet can be, the sadness of being away from them can be equally as strong.

And this feeling can be even worse for them, with dogs being particularly vulnerable to it. Here are some ways to make the situation more manageable so you can both feel at ease during your time apart.

Know the signs

Before you can find a solution, you first need to recognize the problem. If your pet seems particularly nervous (pacing, whining, or drooling for dogs; meowing or crying for cats) or is exhibiting negative behaviors such as destroying items or having accidents, it may be an indication of separation anxiety.

Take the preventative steps

Get them accustomed to being alone This tip mostly applies to canines, who tend to be clingier, but may also help felines. Leave them to themselves for a short while to start (how short will depend on your current level of interaction), and gradually increase their solitary time. And don’t make a fuss when you exit and return home. (For more details about this method, go to page 19.)

Keep comfort close
Make sure that your pet’s favorite toys are easily accessible to provide not only familiarity and comfort but also a distraction to help them pass the time. Also, scatter about things with your scent, such as clothes or shoes, to make them feel closer to you.

Create calm
If your dog is protective of your home, you might want to keep your curtains closed to reduce their agitation. In contrast, cats often like surveying the outside world. If possible, give your pet their own room they can escape to, and consider leaving a soothing sound playing, such as white noise or music—just verify that they respond well to it before heading out.

Be sure to contact your veterinarian if you think your pet is struggling with separation anxiety.